Tied Up And Sexy
Bondage covers a number of different things in the realms of BDSM. One of those fun avenues is the different forms of being tied up. With so many different avenues to restrain someone, you’ll have lots of choices how to roleplay with your partner. There are some of the traditional methods of restraint, that stem from places that aren’t that fun, but still can serve a sexy purpose when applied towards consensual bondage.
Straight jackets can give that kind of extra jolt to a wild fantasy, since the arms of the one restrained won’t be accessible for movement at all, and you’ll have limited access to some of their nether regions as well. It’s not that you can’t slide straps to the side though, which add to the level of sexiness if your bondage scene is going in that direction. The mouth of your bound partner will be the most accessible part of them, which can add a heightened sense to any hardcore mouth fucking or oral fixations that the sub in the situation might have.
Handcuffs are also another traditional form of restraint, and can be a bit more versatile, because they can be used to handcuff a sub to the bed, or another surface, instead of just to themselves. Unlike the straight jacket, which obviously has the connotations of someone being considered unhinged, the handcuffs can be a little more playful, and are much easier to transport. While neither of these items has a positive connotation in the normal world, that doesn’t mean you can’t make them into something sexy and powerful in your bedroom or dungeon. We need to take the symbols of yesterdays oppression and turn them into tomorrow’s foreplay. Every time we turn items of oppression into items of fun and release, we have struck a blow for sexual evolution.
